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Santorini on a Budget: The Solo Female Traveler’s Ultimate Guide

Santorini on a Budget: The Solo Female Traveler’s Ultimate Guide

Top 10 Things to Do as a Solo Female Traveler in Monteverde, Costa Rica

Top 10 Things to Do as a Solo Female Traveler in Monteverde, Costa Rica

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19 Ways to Beat Depression and Anxiety

How to Make a Travel-Inspired DIY Self-Care Kit

How to Make a Travel-Inspired DIY Self-Care Kit

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Cancelled Flight? 5 Easy Steps to Take Now

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5 Ways to Celebrate Your Birthday While Solo Traveling

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Muted. Listening. Learning. #blackouttuesday

Muted. Listening. Learning. #blackouttuesday

What have you done that you previously thought you

What have you done that you previously thought you could never do? 💪⁣
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Part of my morning journaling practice is to make a list of 10 things, any 10 things I want 📝⁣
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The cool thing is that the more I practice, the easier it is to brainstorm and come up with ideas for anything in my life that needs a new approach! ✨⁣
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Sometimes I use this practice to list places I'd like to live one day, or I use it for my business to come up with good content ideas for you all 💁⁣
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But yesterday I wanted something a little extra inspirational - so I found this prompt: what have you done that you previously thought you could never do? 🤔⁣
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It was SO empowering reflecting on this really important question and realizing that I am actually so much more powerful and capable than I think I am sometimes 🙏⁣
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For example, I remembered when I lived and traveled solo for the first time when I was 19 years old in Albania, and in the beginning how much I just wanted to quit and go home, totally unsure of how I could actually survive it 😔⁣
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But with the help of an amazing support system and an extra dose of grit, I stuck it out, and now 4 years later I still refer to my time in Albania as one of the most pivotal turning points in my life 🇦🇱⁣
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So for anyone who needs a pick-me-up, I highly recommend trying out this exercise - you also might just discover how truly strong and amazing you really are! 💡⁣
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Try it now! What have you done that you previously thought you could never do? Let me know in the comments 👇⁣
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I look back on the past few years of my life & rea

I look back on the past few years of my life & realize that having the money & ability to travel to dreamy faraway places is NOT an indicator of happiness or success ☝⁣
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Okay, it's true that I can often be "happier" when I'm traveling ✈⁣
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But in comparing how I feel day-to-day in 2020 compared to 2 years ago, the difference COULD NOT be bigger 💡⁣
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Sure, in 2018 I got to live in Denmark & Boston, scuba dive in Indonesia, party in the Dominican Republic, get what I thought was my dream job at Harvard, & ring in the new year in Morocco & Spain 🌍⁣
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This all sounds good in theory, but was I truly happy in 2018? HELL NO! 🙅⁣
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2018 was actually the worst year of my life, filled with such a deep feeling of depression that I wouldn't wish upon my worst enemy 😔⁣
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But fast-forward to today: I'm on my 3rd job in 2 years, I'm newly single (& not by choice), struggling to pay off debt, live in a prohibitively expensive city, can't travel because of COVID-19, got a concussion in a snowboarding accident in January that ended my season, etc. 💁⁣
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But despite all this - I am actually happier right now than I have been in a LONG TIME. 😊⁣
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I feel more independent, motivated, healthier, smarter, & stronger than I've ever been, showing that it isn't money or travel that I need to feel happy - 🏝⁣
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It's determination, dedication, extraordinary effort, & unwavering faith that in the end, everything will work out 🙏⁣
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What makes you happiest that surprised you at first? Let me know in the comments below! 👇⁣
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It can be easy to spend most of our days living in

It can be easy to spend most of our days living in the darkness, in fear, and ignoring our weaknesses and blind spots 🙈⁣
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Although that might feel more comfortable at first, over time it will only bring us further into the darkness, keeping us from all that we know we can be and achieve 🌚⁣
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So instead we need to resist that temptation and look towards the sun instead, shed light on the reality of things, and pay attention to what we can be doing better! ☝⁣
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For example, I admit that I need to get better at asking questions, all the time ❓⁣
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Throughout my schooling I got too used to no time for questions and having to accept things the way they are, but that's not how life works! 🙅⁣
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We can't keep learning if we don't keep asking questions 💁⁣
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What are you working on getting better at? Let me know in the comments! 👇⁣
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Salty hair, don't care 👱‍♀️⁣ ⁣ I'm lo

Salty hair, don't care 👱‍♀️⁣
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I'm longing for the days where I can have views like this again 😍⁣
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I've got my eyes on the Philippines, the Yucatan Peninsula in Mexico, or Hawaii next for my tropical palm tree fix 🌴⁣
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What about you? Where do you want to travel to when this is all over? Let me know in the comments! 👇⁣
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How my very first travel experience has inspired r

How my very first travel experience has inspired rest and peace in me during these challenging times ✌⁣
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If you've been following me for a while, you know that the very first place I traveled to overseas was Salzburg, Austria to study abroad there after my freshman year of university 🇦🇹⁣
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I'm a little embarrassed to admit that my original inspiration to go there was because I absolutely adore 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘚𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘔𝘶𝘴𝘪𝘤, which was filmed there, but I'm so glad that I let my passions guide my heart 💕⁣
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Even though my university didn't offer study abroad programs in Salzburg, I found @aifsabroad that did, and I did everything that I could to make my dream come true! 😍⁣
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In that summer I spent in Salzburg, I discovered more love, laughter, kindness, and natural beauty than I had ever experienced before ⛰⁣
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It was the starting point for everything that I've done since - and I've returned three more times since I studied there to revisit this city and locals that I hold so dear to my heart ♥⁣
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Now, whether I'm preparing for the GRE to apply to grad schools this fall or getting an MRI of my brain to rule out M.S. (true story), I take a deep breath in, imagine this exact meadow of Maria Plain looking out over Salzburg, and feel completely at peace once again 🕊⁣
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Where have you traveled that holds a very special place in your heart and brings you peace? Let me know in the comments below! 👇⁣
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Family has new meaning for me now since the pandem

Family has new meaning for me now since the pandemic began ♥⁣
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I've always been lucky to have a loving and trusting relationship with my Mom, Dad, and sisters, and I've only become more grateful for that as I've gotten older 🙏⁣
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When I was younger, I would have such a hard time being separated from my family, especially from my Mom, and sometimes it got in the way of me experiencing new things 😔⁣
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So when I discovered my love of solo travel 5 years ago and how right it felt for me, traveling around the world started to feel like it was at odds with my love for my family sometimes 🙅⁣
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I think because of that, I started distancing myself from them as well as any close friends in my head - relieving the cognitive dissonance - so that it would be easier to constantly be saying "hello" and "goodbye" as I went from one place to the next ✈⁣
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I've made an effort over the years to mentally distance and convince myself that I don't need them, probably to protect myself - if I don't depend on anyone for anything, then I can't be disappointed if someone fails to provide for me ☝⁣
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But after returning from 3 weeks back in Michigan with my family and visiting some college friends, the first opportunity I've had for real human contact in 3 months, I'm discovering a newfound appreciation for my family and all those who truly love and value me 💖⁣
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I think I'm finally starting to find a balance - I can learn to be self-sufficient while also leaning on my friends and family for a healthy level of support ✨⁣
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How do you balance your love for your family and friends with your love of travel? Let me know in the comments! 👇⁣
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Peek a boo! 👀⁣ ⁣ I miss my palm trees like

Peek a boo! 👀⁣
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I miss my palm trees like I know so many of you do! 🌴⁣
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The next time I see one, you bet I'm gonna give it a BIG ol' hug 🤗⁣
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What will you do the next time you see palm trees? Where do you want to see them next? Let me know in the comments! 👇⁣
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Learning to surf is a masterclass in patience and

Learning to surf is a masterclass in patience and perseverance 🏄‍♀️⁣
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I've been loving reminiscing on my past travels while stuck at home, and my time learning to surf for 10 days in Santa Teresa, Costa Rica a year ago is one of my most cherished memories 💖⁣
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One of the reasons for that is because I never believed I would be able to learn how to surf - big ocean waves TERRIFIED me (I grew up on Lake Michigan) and I didn't know you could just dive under them to avoid them! 🌊⁣
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This was a major breakthrough for me, and once I got out into the water and caught my first wave, I was hooked 😍⁣
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Surfing requires that you're all there, totally in the moment and totally focused, and I think that's what makes it such a unique and fantastic sport, culture, and community ✨⁣
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Along with some other solo travelers who were staying at my hostel for a bit longer than most people, every morning we'd get up and go out surfing together, and every evening we'd go and catch more waves before coming back to shore and cracking open beers together while watching the sunset, followed by a bonfire on the beach cooking up some asado 🌅⁣
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I would do anything to go back to those days right now, and right now just makes me even more grateful I've gotten to have experiences like this 🙏⁣
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Have you ever been surfing? What did you think about it? Let me know in the comments! 👇⁣
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The summer weather is FINALLY starting around here

The summer weather is FINALLY starting around here in the northern U.S. and it makes me feel like I'm just a little bit closer to something like this tropical paradise 😅⁣
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Since it doesn't look like I'll be seeing real paradise anytime soon because of the pandemic though, I'm already anticipating making my balcony into a little oasis this summer, complete with a kiddy pool and a blowup palm tree 🌴⁣
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Have you tried vacationing inside during quarantine? I've been seeing some inspirational photos floating around social media, but I'm always looking for more ideas! Drop any you have in the comments below 👇⁣
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